FOETTI GUIDE #001 THE WEDDING DRESS
Guide to Choosing Your Wedding Dress
Your wedding dress is more than just an outfit—it’s a reflection of your personality, style, and the way you want to feel as you walk down the aisle. The process can feel overwhelming, but with the right approach, it becomes an exciting and memorable part of your wedding journey.
1. Define Your Vision
Moodboard it: Collect inspiration from Pinterest, Instagram, magazines, or bridal websites. Pay attention to what consistently draws your eye.
Consider your venue and theme: A flowing bohemian gown may suit a beach wedding, while a structured ball gown might feel perfect in a grand ballroom.
Think about how you want to feel: Romantic? Regal? Effortlessly chic? Classic?
2. Know Your Budget
Set a realistic budget before stepping into a boutique.
Remember to account for alterations, accessories, veil, shoes, and jewelry.
Ask yourself: Would you rather invest more in the dress itself, or balance the budget with other wedding elements (like photography or décor)?
3. Understand Silhouettes & Fabrics
Different silhouettes flatter different body types and personalities:
A-Line: Universally flattering, fitted bodice with flowy skirt.
Ball Gown: Dramatic, fairytale look, great for formal weddings.
Mermaid/Trumpet: Hugging curves, glamorous and bold.
Sheath/Column: Sleek and modern, minimalistic elegance.
Tea-Length/Short: Playful, casual, or vintage-inspired.
Fabrics matter too:
Silk & Satin: Smooth, luxurious, formal.
Lace: Romantic, detailed, timeless.
Chiffon & Tulle: Light, airy, dreamy.
Crepe: Modern, chic, minimalist.
4. Shop Smart
Start early: Ideally 9–12 months before your wedding to allow time for orders and alterations.
Limit your entourage: Bring 2–3 trusted voices who respect your vision. Too many opinions can be overwhelming.
Be open-minded: Dresses often look very different on the hanger vs. on your body. Try styles you hadn’t considered.
Don’t chase trends: Choose something timeless that feels like you.
5. Prioritize Comfort
You’ll be moving, hugging, dancing, and celebrating—comfort matters!
Can you sit, walk, and dance easily?
Is the fabric breathable for your season?
Are the straps/support secure enough?
6. Alterations & Customization
Nearly every gown needs alterations. Factor in 2–3 fittings.
Consider adding personal touches: sleeves, lace appliqué, beading, or a custom neckline.
Ask about bustle options for train management during the reception.
7. Complete the Look
Think about how your veil, jewelry, shoes, and hairstyle complement the dress.
Keep balance in mind: if your dress is heavily embellished, go light on accessories (and vice versa).
Undergarments matter: a proper bra or shapewear can transform the fit.
8. Trust Your Instincts
At the end of the day, the best dress is the one that makes you feel like the most confident, beautiful version of yourself.
Don’t buy it just because others love it.
Don’t settle for “good enough”—the right one will make you light up.
Final Note: Your wedding dress doesn’t define your marriage, but it can absolutely elevate your celebration. Choose the one that makes you smile every time you imagine wearing it.